This paper based on the texts of Ggotgueneul arae(written by Lee, Hye-kyoung), Naeui jajubit sofa(written by Jo, Kyeong-nan) and Yeopjib yoeja(written by Ha, Seong-nan). This novels shows modern families. The real choice we have about the family is to change our present point of view. Lee, Hye-kyeong, Jo, Kyeong-nan and Ha, seong-nan exposes such a process. Toward the center of this process, and more recently, the dim glow of self-awareness, self-refelcting consciousness, has been flickering, slowly growing brighter. This phenomenen has been realized by only characters in the novels. In the 1990s, family system was believed to be on the verge of dismantlement, but the situation is still very fluid. Basically, the three writers bring up for novels connect the intersections of the themes, and shows the sections of families, in order to create a continuum of intermediary common life and stories. In considering the this point it is worth nothing how much families are already daily part in the women's life. The fact that it is presented with system of daily is flower, house and the food in them. Like this elements reflect the features of the family and they take charge of one axis of narration. These to combine and the characters to participate to understood of the family. Three writers says characters need to the essence of family and while recognizing that some of the common life came about because family. The characters in novels have mutual understanding to common life. The realization of feminication as a single, conscious entity depends on several conditions: common life, family and circumference surround this constituent units. At this time, one important things to consider is family. Lee, Hye-kyeong, Jo, Kyeong-nan and Ha Seong-nan accordingly used women and common life as element of th narrative in hers novels. No longer there seems little reasons to mince words or pull punches about human being's the family-oriented instincts in the novels. The reality of life disregards common life. What's the immediate outlook for family system in women's life? Novels answers to a question.